Madisen calls to talk about the pitfalls of keeping a husbometer. And with a quick, effectively argued blow – the husbometer becomes a private off-blog project (that will probably die a quiet death at the 100 day mark). Mad says the world doesn’t need to know all that, David doesn’t need to see that, and a positive frame of mind is the most important thing. Not the data. She talked about men that would come into the bar and talk about their unhappy wives, wives qualitatively and quantitatively unhappy with something in the marriage. No one needs to publicly wonder whether honeymoon highs are coming, rather need to remember and cherish all the little honeymoon highs throughout the day, the week, the year – and foster those into existence.
My phone call with Mad started with a request for private conversation, and that situation caused a tension that’s difficult to explain and very relevant to the events of the day.
Perhaps I’ve been lazy with my stream-of-conscious, daily-reporting tone for the blog. Perhaps I should experiment with different styles of writing.
In closing, some (non-data) highlights from the day:
- Having a slow departure, big breakfast kind of morning
- Watching Anne of Green Gables DVD (surprise side 2!) from the library on my laptop during the train ride
- Thinking back on last night’s dinner with David and Omo
- Having a really productive day at work (…using Adobe Premiere again to video edit!)
- Free pumpkin pie with whipped cream! First pumpkin pie of the year
- Having a phone call with a lost friend
- Being given a seat on the subway
- Coming home to David
- Peaceful yoga and shower